are you clinging to something that no longer fits you, just because it's easy and familiar? (it could be a job you've outgrown, a relationship you need to re-examine, or a behavior you need to change.)in case you're wondering if i'm referring my relationship to this short passage .. relax, i'm not. we are no where near it. there are so much to work on, barely time for doubts. i tried to recall if there is anything that i had refuse to move-on though. so far so .. *blurred*
to develop and grow you must be willing to move out of your comfort zone. n deal with a little "distress". never become so "settled" that you can't let go n move on when you need to.
patience and persistence may be admirable, but they won't work in situations you've outgrown. instead of hanging in and trying harder, at certain points you have to stop and ask yourself, "Is this situation good for me?"
when it's time to move on, it's because there's another place out there that will fit you even better. so - are you ready for bigger things?
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
something to keep you thinking. as it kept me thinking ..