Inner-Direction.

another discovery made !!

there's always this contradiction between "girls whom are Inner-Directed" (有主见) versus "girls Without personal thoughts or judgments".

1) most of the times, girls with inner-direction are complained while giving personal "ideas", as it greatly affect the opposite party's pride.
2) at other times, they are critiqued for being too dependent for not having their own thoughts.

the most reasonable ground for such growth in attitude, is because girls nowadays are no more non-educated like the old-days ..

being a leo, i hold onto my own believes n standards. just as i do not judge something, or someone, as "other said so". although external interceptions are not banned, but it definitely took conscious reasoning to persuade me, for i only judge from observation. being educated doesn't mean being unreasonable, does it ??

人間わおもしろいね！