with marriage approaching, her emotional security tilted n filled her with doubts n agitation. years being together, she has yet to uncover ways to communicate with him, to freely verbalize her dislikes. is he at fault for not tolerating her mood swing? or did she naively choose to be ignorant, expecting him to read minds? watching in dismay, there isn't much an outsider can nor should do. it takes a whole lot of effort to create a Magically Enchanted relationship, n it definitely involves the participation of the Duo.
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I believe a relationship needs a strong bond between the couple, and needs them to have faith between themselves too...
ReplyDeleteIt's effort on both side, but like what the title said, the trick is probably giving just enough effort so everything is in harmony.
ReplyDeleteHeh, what do I know... just my general view on any type of relationship. Work, friendship, romance.. etc..
akira: indeed, what's the point of being together if they can't give it all they can n have. holding back every anger just to retain the harmony is pointless, which also means they can't even tolerate each others' personalities.
ReplyDeleterollakid: it'll usually be troublesome when one of the sides decide to be ignorant. afraid of conflicts, afraid of ruining the harmony, afraid of these n that. but in fact, keeping the harmony is pointless if they can't even reach an understanding. not to even mention living together from now onwards. the thought alone is enough to choke me.
Thanks for dropping by my blog ... mind guessing will not work in a relationship... Communicate and understand is the most important elements in a relatiohship... :)
ReplyDeletetz: exactly, n before understand comes communication. let it be good or bad stuff. it's the sharing that matters after all. :)
ReplyDeleteI am practicing "No Eye See" policy...
ReplyDeletejosephine: won't that lead to a whole pile of problems as time advances?
ReplyDeleteso true
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ReplyDeletejolene: what a short comment. XD
ReplyDeleteivan: 嗯，不然就越来越麻烦了。
wah...ur camera can take this kind of picture....damn kao good leh
ReplyDeletevialentino: thanks! i think it was the sky n lighting that was sharp enough. glad you liked it. :)
ReplyDeleteHaha, that's so true! Every anger needs to be solved, that is a must! :p
ReplyDeletelack of communication often turns a simple misunderstanding into more complex problem.. so without being honest and open in a relationship, might as well kiss it good bye! ;-)
ReplyDeleteoh btw, nice shot!! :-)
ReplyDeleteakira: indeed. get it solved n over with. so that the same thing don't have to happen again. :)
ReplyDeletemonica: thanks for the compliment! :) agreed, n when it turns complex, it's so much harder to solve. it's like watching the relationship rot by itself. :p
Learnt from the mistakes, that is a compulsory for every couple too...
ReplyDeleteakira: yup, as long as both has no intention to breakup, anything is solvable n possible. :)
ReplyDeleteWell, the two people should open up to one another, and make sure that they don't let the tiny little problems bottled up, becuz once it's full and can't keep anymore, the loud explosion will likely to happen in the end. The enchanted long lasting relationship does exist as long as the two people understand one another mutual feelings becuz " Love isn't how you forget, but how you forgive, not how you listen, but how you understand, not how you see, but how you feel, not how you let go, but how you hold on to.." hmm... i don't rmb where I got the statement from, just that i rmb it quite well, cuz it makes perfect sense to me, so barbie credited it to unknown source Heh heh...
ReplyDeleteI don't know if I am too late to comment this *blushing*
BARBIE: nope, it's never too late to comment in this post. i'll always welcome you no matter which post you stopped by. :) that is such an awesome quote! i'm gonna write it down n use it in my future post, credited not to unknown source, but from you, princess, since i heard it from you. ;)
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