Wednesday, March 04, 2009

Inadequacy.



the news of him giving her a diamond ring startled me. married for almost a decade, her struggles never ended - keeping the company intact while bearing his empty sweet talks n massive spending of cash. just when i was about to withdraw my judgment on him, another statement threw me off balance. sneering, i listened to the tale of him paying for the ring with Her card. at the aged of 40, he'll probably die of hunger if it weren't for her, instead of eating at expensive restaurants way too often, puffing up his pride. disappointed endlessly, hope evaporated, he will never treat her good.

無用な男だ。

13 comments :

  1. What the? The guy shouldn't be like that! Guy should give financial secured to the wife!

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  2. Can see many of such men these days. They want the good life too. Worse is they go look for hookers or keep mistresses.

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  3. That's bad! But surprisingly, some women are willing.

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  4. akira: the useless type, selfish enough to can't even support nor love their wife the correct way!

    ecl: they probably won't feel the pain until karma hits back. it's amazing how these things work.

    foongpc: some hang on for the children sake, some for marriage sake. if they were given a choice, i doubt they're willing to just sit n stare.

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  5. aihhh....i pity my friend who divorce recently cause the hubby got affair with china mui...

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  6. vialentino: there is really a limit on how much one can accept of another. he sure has crossed the line. but luckily she noticed as well.

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  7. Beside of the money, affair is another issue that needs to be aware of...

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  8. akira: i don't understand why does it have to happen. there is always a choice. n the good n bad is too obvious to miss.

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  9. one word levian... karma..
    one way or another..
    seen many men like that these days ...
    sadness when i know one day i might be the unlucky ones..
    hard to judge a guy.. u know..
    worry about future and all
    :(

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  10. sadly, there r a large number of ppl out there who fall out of love and have affairs. such stories are neither new nor uncommon anymore.

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  11. sharon: you may be one of the unlucky ones? do protect yourself while your at it. from what i know, you're not married yet. :)

    life ramblings: loyalty are indeed so hard to find nowadays. they can stay single n flirt forever if they want, but there is no reason to drag another person down as well.

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  12. I feel very sorry for her :-(

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  13. monica: me too, she is my dearest after all. it's painful to see this happening to someone so very close.

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