sarcasm may be fun, yet it is essential to not let it get outta hand. when it does, it often turns offensive, n soon leads to annoyance.
though sarcasm may not be deceptive, but not everyone can grasps its true intention. n sometimes although one may just intend to be funny, their words can also be very hurtful to the target.the art of sarcasm ?? is Not to cross the boundary n let the critiques get too personal, retaining the respect. but then again, it requires a certain level of mental dexterity n intelligence to master the art.
人間は難しいです ..
Sarcasm maybe fun sometimes, but just dont too over, it will hurt and offend others...
ReplyDelete有人强了我的沙发啦!哈哈...
ReplyDelete偶尔一两次的嘲笑可能是好的啦...但要是你是针对某人,故意每一次都嘲笑他的或可就不好了...
凡事都适可而止好...^^
..continues from akira..
ReplyDelete...unless you really meant to use it to hurt and offend. *armed for battle* Wheee! And if sarcasm doesn't work..maybe a kick in the groin might.
Some people said I'm a sort of sarcastic person lol...
ReplyDeleteRight, Princess! Sarcasm can be considered as the joke, and it's fun, isn't it? but somehow, people might misinterpret what we truely wanna imply. Erm... I wonder how many people got hurt becuz of my crappy sarcastic rants?
Nice post, I like it =)
akira: exactly. especially when one starts to attack another person's personal Value. we can try to persuade others, not attack.
ReplyDelete梦幻园主之雯: 嗯，通常都是这样的情形才会得罪到朋友。有时被这样的人气到，也挺难免的。呵呵！
marcus: i'm rather attracted to that kick. a little physical is most of the time the quickest n most efficient anger or stress reliever, no that i'm an aggressor or something .. *innocent* =3
barbie: you're quite true when you mentioned in your post (n comments) that you're sometimes rather strong with words n it might offend others unintentionally.
that reminds me .. i was personally offended when you first mentioned my posts as "sarcastic rants". for i only meant for my posts to be a Stress Reliever, never meant to hurl my words at anyone in particular with the intention of Blaming them.
but that is who you are. for us who accept the straightforward characteristic of yours should have minimal difficulties in understanding n getting along with you. ;)
totally agree with you! sacarsm needs to be controlled esp in customer service ppl :)
ReplyDeleteSome said that the people who attacked on others do not have high EQ, because they like to say something without proceed to the main brain...
ReplyDelete[quote] i was personally offended when you first mentioned my posts as "sarcastic rants". for i only meant for my posts to be a Stress Reliever, never meant to hurl my words at anyone in particular with the intention of Blaming them.[quote]
ReplyDeleteHaha... FYI, all I can say is I am sorry for watever sheer nonsense words that might, by all mean, offend you for any reasons.
Well, I sometimes have the straightforward characteristic, but at the same time, I might have said sth that I don't really mean to. Ewww... such a lame excuse! I am supposed to act twice think twice, aren't I? =)
Whatever it takes, I'm so glad with you being honest to me =) So, once again, I am sorry, Princess =)
quachee: exactly, words do hurt more than a physical punch or attack.
ReplyDeleteakira: totally !! they just say whats in their head without considering another person's feelings. barbaric ..
barbie: a simpler way to put it could be .. "one should treat others how one wanna be treated in return".
but no worries, as i believe friendship that went through some challenges n yet still remains, should be the friendship to treasure the most. ;)
Is ok, someday they will get attack or insult by others too! Just put it simple, dont attack people without proper consideration...
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