was thrown a rather accusative statement, twice, by the same person who once Taunted n made fun of my Past Relationship.
a sudden realization stroke me, he might not be the Problem itself .. but his Insensitivity to grasp the harshness of his own words. though it might sound funny to him, the exact statement could reopen a wound for another person. a feeling of forcefully dug soreness resurfaced. still voicing similar remarks after more than half a year (since March until September), my guess is .. he haven't grew out of his insensitive-self .. yet. somehow it felt pointless talking sense into those that doesn't seemed to want it.
being in another relationship never does erase the previous pains, but it does make me clench tighter to the current happiness, served as a strength to soften the negativity by slightly slanting the perspective. n in time, transform into a less fiery leo. ;)