he ought not expect everyone to respond nor react the exact way he expected them to. she had her way getting through to certain people yet it had never been easy even after she finally figured it out. one may need lectures, another may need to be screamed at, some might need to lose everything before they started to really listen. there were also those who only learn from mistakes n experiences. she was one among the latter. for it doesn't matter whichever approach, it was a channel worth exploring. however, one cannot expect to help another that do not wish to help themselves. it will be long before he can fully comprehend these concepts. but on the bright side, never is ever too late for anyone.