Growth.

the small event that occurred at the court last night causes the concern among friends. though i doubt any of them will read this -since they are mostly gamers, none blogger- but there is still the urge to display my gratitude towards their concerns.

Thank You.

i despise placing myself in others' relationship problems. for i believe these problems, difficulties, conflicts, disagreements n sort, are merely playing a role in the growth of the relationship. n to grow meaning to face these challenges together. to build the trust n reliances along the way. to become one n form a stronger bond when these hurtful circumstances occurred.

right or wrong exists in a thin-line in conflicts, as both side holds the responsibilities for its occurrence. i hope we are given the chance to grow ourselves. n i do mean "ourselves" as in without anyone interfering or "offering help" .. *firmly* who is there to help us 24/7 ??

it is easy to be lovey-dovey n intimate when things are neutral - the happy times. yet when challenges occurred n threatens to shatter the relationship, 2 people are put to the test. how strong is their bond ?? how stable is their love ?? the relationship is at stake.

despite the hurtful feelings n moods, the aim is still to achieve a stabler relationship, a better understanding. feel it, talk about it, n get it over with. lets still hold hands while moving forward. i believe thats the attitude ..

Drawing.

Holding Hands.

2 days back, while walking through a crowded coffee shop, saw an old couple. both white-haired n wrinkled. not someone we would usually laid our eyes on. walking pass them, something about them caught me ..

they are holding hands. firmly n tightly. in a "locked to me" style. (read below for explanation)

Physical intimacy is part of fostering your bond with each other. Holding hands is an intricate part of your relationship. Whether you do it in private or public, holding hands doesn't only connect your emotions, but enhances it as well.

One of the most common types of holding hands is the “locked to me” way. Interlocking your fingers with hers. Do this by putting your palms together, as if in prayer. As your palms align, the fingers will naturally align.

As your relationship grows, you may discover other ways of holding hands, and those that will suit the both of you. The important thing is never letting go, for as long as your hands are together, you and her become one.

he lead her through the crowd. slowly and cautiously. looking back at her from time to time making sure she is doing alright. it touches my heart. for how many couples are still so loving, so tender n close to each other's heart when they are old ?? how many do we see around us ??

we may see Englishman holding hands quite often, but rarely among Chinese. maybe it is something we ought to remind ourselves of ..

kitties..

this is again, an "advertisement" of a friend -jing- 's n his sister's cat. thanks lots for sharing !! :) is my blog gonna be called a "pets' blog" next ?? it had been called a "movies' blog", a "horoscopes' blog" before. adding to the list, anyone ?? ;)